2.23.2010

A Heart Hidden in Christ

"A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her." ~Maya Angelou

When I first read this statement, it hit me within like a brick wall. I had never thought it through so deeply as to come to the conclusion that my heart should be completely hidden in Christ. The only way that could be possible would be by focusing on Christ and Christ alone, giving up meaningless relationships, giving up popularity, friends, the attention of boys, and even giving up your own flirtatious ways. Girls are so focused on pleasing boys with their looks and dress, they want to be accepted by other girls, and they spend so much of their time looking in the mirror. But is there ever a day when a girl wakes up and looks within her own heart, at what really counts - such as where her relationship with Christ is, where her focus is, and how she can honour God most? Do we spend more time worrying about our outward appearance or worrying about our inward appearance? What's within us is what really counts. God is only concerned about the heart, not the hair, makeup, or dress. One day, God will bring along a godly man that will be intrigued by your love for Christ, His Word, and His church. He won't be drawn to your outward beauty, but rather, the beauty within your heart and your love for God and others.
My prayer is that God will bring along such a man whose focus is Christ, whose life is Christ, whose passion is Christ, and whose desire is to please and honor Christ. That is the kind of man a Christian woman should be drawn to. In our society, however, it's all about how good looking a man is, how tall he is, how tanned he his, how strong and muscular he is, never what's within his heart.
I urge you, as young woman reading this, to give God the pen and let Him write your love story, to let Him script it according to His plans and what He knows is best for you. God's love stories are so much more beautiful than we could ever imagine.
So stop chasing after selfish dreams. Give your all to Christ and allow Him to bring along the man whose heart will be so hidden in Christ that you will have to know Him personally as your Saviour as well in order to find him.

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